birds nest, i totally agree with your first comment. rockhopper, that was a good response to this issue as it was from another young person and it needed to be said.
jaceb, no one is picking on you but you need to realise that while you have the right to ask any Qs you want on these forums, people r going to be a little freaked out by some of the things you ask. you DO keep people on there toes and i know i am not the only one who looks forward to reading your posts. but the fact is i know that some people are starting to get a bit suspect. the comment about you maybe being older is not the first one i have read so i will risk the wrath of the moderators and say this. if you are just 14yrs old and inexperienced then we would all be a little sorry for the coments that have been made on this thread. if you are actually older than you say then people will assume there can only be dark reasons for this*. so if that is the case then it is not working and i suggest you stop it. once again jaceb if i have got it wrong then i really do apologise
( do not forget you were offered some face to face advice if you brought an adult with you and you turned it down) most people would jump at that opportunity