Dave mate there's never an easy solution to getting over it, as muffy says time heals
I can remember about 10 years back where there was a group of 6 of us all went out for a jolly days fishing at Dover, we were all initially gonna fish off of Shakespeare beach which would if been perfect for us all,
Apon arrival we all got our bait in Brazil's of Dover but then the unexpected happened

everyone had now changed their blimmin mind and now wanted to fish samphire hoe, now I personally love samphire but without a damm drop net it was virtually useless in fishing there.
But hey ho along we went,
Cut the long story short it was September, blimmin hot and calm all day,
A few small fish were caught IE wrasse, couple baby pollock etc but nothing special, anyhow I caught a few mackerel and decided to keep and use these as bait later towards evening once it got to low water,
Now 7.00 pm and the sun had now dropped behind the cliffs and shaded a lot of the water In front, it was now low water and I could very clearly see the long line of rocks along the wall, lowered a lead and rig baited with a big mackerel fillet penneld, absolutely perfect tide and conditions.
Ten minutes went by and I got a tap on the rod, I moved closer , all of a sudden me rod went absolutely ballistic and I was in one hell of a fight, the clutch was set pretty damm tight but it was still stripping line,
I wasn't messing about with gear here as I was on 30 lb mainline straight to the rig, the fish managed to snag me but I luckily managed to free it and once again it was on the move through the rocks,
My initial thoughts were at first that I've hooked and am playing a strap conger, eventually I managed to get it to the surface
MY GOD it was literally the biggest bass I've seen ever, it was HUGE and I'm now completely fu##ed as I obviously had no blimmin drop net , all me mates now screaming up and down the hoe for anyone to have a net but no not a chance

now I'm pi##ed
The other side of the wall there is a ledge and me mate Andy bunked over the wall and onto the ledge which is now about halfway down the wall,
Lying down Andy took hold of me main line and carefully guided the fish to the wall his hand was actually now about 7-8 ft from the fishes head whilst the fish was just lying there and wallowing on the surface,
I very clearly see this fish and me mate Andy was a lot closer to it, Andy has had a lot of good fish over the years and is no stranger to big fish eaither and we both agreed that this bass would easily be tipping the scales at 15-16 lb without no hesitation,
Well known Alan Yates from Folkestone actually see the fish aswell looking over the wall at the fish
I was now waiting for what I considered the obvious to happen

As Andy went to try and lift this fish just several feet up the wall he barely even got its damm head out of the water when.......DINK



It cleanly snapped 30 lb snood
For the next hr I was literally stomping up and down samphire hoe like a good'n swearing and cursing, other people on the hoe must of honestly thought I was some kind of nut case that's just been released out of an asylum.
To this day I very much doubt I'll ever come close to another mid double figure bass